Can I get into my spiritual box for just a minute?
I don't believe God created us to be alone. In the book of Genesis everything was going well and God was very happy with himself. The first negative word that came out of his mouth was in Genesis 2:18 "And the LORD God said, 'It is not good that man should be alone;'"
I agree, it's not good for us to be alone. If you've been cooked up in your house for a week looking for a job on the net, you need to get out!
Something great happens when you get out and meet people. When you tell them you are looking for a job they put you on the spot. "Oh, what do you do? What kind of job are you looking for?" then your mind goes blank! Think!
Getting out and meeting people is a great prelude to going on interviews. People you meet ask you questions that make you think about how you want to position yourself. Maybe you have been doing the same kind of job for years and when you are out meeting people, you bouce new ideas with them.
Where do you go out to meet people?
I found a great site www.meetup.com, you can search for your city and find lots of different groups meeting.
Another good source is looking for chambers of commerce. Most cities have multiple chambers which hold monthly mixers. Some charge an entrance fee of $10-20 and if you spend the money, go early and stay late. I look for the ones that don't charge because I find that it tends to be a better networking crowd. If the networking meeting is held at a bar, I scratch it because it's going to be a waste of time. My wife and I went to one at a bar last week (despite our better judgement) and it was just a meat market (sorry for being blunt but that's what it was). People in bars are not too interested in business talk!
So remember, next time you've been in the house for a while, frustrated, desperate, tired of looking for a job, frozen in one place, get out and network!
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